• Thu. Oct 23rd, 2025
  1. Spoiler: It’s a lot less wine and galleries, and a lot more coffee and mess.
Before I dove into this life, I had ideas—vivid ones—about what being an artist meant. You probably did too.I imagined sunlit studios with exposed brick. A steaming mug of tea beside a paint-smeared sketchbook. Maybe a cat purring somewhere near my feet while I quietly pondered “the essence of creativity.” There would be gallery openings, obviously. People would murmur thoughtful things about my work while sipping red wine. I’d smile gently, because of course I was above it all.
The reality?
Try forgotten cups of lukewarm tea, creative block at 2am, and wondering if posting the same piece again on Instagram makes me look desperate.There’s a strange tension in the life of a working creative. It’s joyful, messy, brave, and often terribly unglamorous. Some days, we’re flying—ideas pouring out, colours landing just right, followers loving our work. Other days? We stare at a blank canvas, convinced we’ve forgotten how to do this. Or worse—we start comparing ourselves to others and spiral.

No one tells you how many hours you’ll spend fighting your own inner critic. No one mentions that pricing your work feels like trying to appraise your own soul. And don’t even get me started on writing descriptions. (“This piece is… blue. Emotionally blue. Spiritually blue. Just buy it? Please?”)

But you know what? The reality—once you settle into it—is beautiful in its own way.

Because there’s magic in the chaos.
Freedom in the uncertainty.
And profound pride in creating something that didn’t exist before your hands touched it.

It’s not what I expected. It’s harder. But also so much richer.

And that moment—when someone tells you your art made them feel something? That’s worth more than every imagined gallery show combined.

By Abbie Shores

Abbie Shores is a British artist, writer, and arts community manager currently based in Manchester. Her creative work is inspired by countryside walks, dogs and horses, and a love of myth-infused storytelling. She is the founder of Our Arts Magazine and author of the Whispers of the Wolf fantasy series. As an autistic creator, she brings unique focus, depth, and insight to her work. Friends know her as Frankie—a nod to the warmth and quiet humour beneath her professional calm.

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