Concert & Gig Etiquette: A Modern Guide for Audiences and Artists

Why Etiquette Still Matters

Live music is a shared space: artists perform, venues host, crews graft, and audiences create the atmosphere. Good etiquette is not about stuffiness; it is simply a compact that allows everyone to hear, see, and feel the music at its best. In small rooms, a single conversation can be louder than the quietest song; in large arenas, a thoughtless crowd surge can injure people. A little consideration makes the magic possible.

Before the Show: Preparation

• Tickets and times: Check your ticket and the venue’s site for door times, set times, and age restrictions. Arrive early enough to find your spot without pushing.
• What to bring: Photo ID if required, earplugs (highly recommended), a small bag, and a refillable water bottle if permitted. Avoid backpacks in crowded rooms.
• Dress code: Wear what you like, but think practical footwear and layers. Big hats and large headwear block views.
• Accessibility planning: If you or a friend need step-free access, seating, or a quiet space, contact the venue in advance. Many will accommodate if asked ahead of time.

During the Show: Best Behaviour

• See something, say something (kindly): If someone is pushed or spilled on, check they are all right. Alert staff if needed; do not escalate.
• Mind the view: Taller folks and people with big hair or hats — consider standing slightly to the side. If you lift someone onto shoulders, make sure there is space and you are not blocking others.
• Volume of conversation: Whisper during quiet songs or step back to the bar. Constant chatter belongs outside the room, not in front of the stage.
• Mosh pits & dancing: Participate only if you understand the etiquette: pick people up when they fall, no elbows, no targeting. Consent applies on the dancefloor too.
• Respect the crew: Bar staff, security, and engineers keep the night running. A “thank you” travels further than you think.

Phones, Photos, and Filming

We live in a phone-forward world, but screens can spoil sightlines and the vibe. As a rule of thumb:

• Follow the artist’s request: If the show is phone-free, respect it. Some artists allow photos for the first three songs only.
• Record briefly, not constantly: Capture a 10–20 second clip, then enjoy the moment. Do not hold your screen high for entire songs.
• Flash off, brightness down: Flashes blind performers and distract the audience. Lower your screen brightness.
• Tag kindly: If you share, credit the artist and venue. Avoid posting unflattering clips of strangers.

Accessibility & Inclusion

Inclusive gigs are better for everyone. Consider:

• Space and comfort: Offer your spot to someone who visibly needs it more. Keep aisles and ramps clear.
• Sensory considerations: Loud volumes and strobes affect some attendees. Earplugs help; warn neighbours if you are using a camera with a bright screen.
• Language and respect: Avoid slurs, sexist chants, or jokes at others’ expense. The music community thrives on welcome, not gatekeeping.

For Artists: Setting Expectations

Artists can shape audience behaviour before the first chord. A few small steps help enormously:

• Publish a simple policy: Add a sentence to your event pages about filming, phone use, and pit etiquette. Clarity prevents conflict.
• Work with the venue: Agree on signage, strobe warnings, and accessibility notes. Make sure front-of-house staff know your requests.
• Signal during the set: A quick, friendly reminder about phones or crowd safety can reset the room without killing the mood.
• Thank the crew publicly: Model the respect you wish to see. Your fans will follow your lead.

After the Show: Support the Scene

• Merch & music: If you can, buy directly from the artist. It is the most effective way to support their work.
• Leave a review: A short, specific review helps artists and venues alike. Mention sound quality, crowd vibe, and accessibility.
• Travel kindly: Be considerate to neighbours and public transport staff on the way home. Keep noise to a civil level.

Quick Glossary

FOH

Front of House — the staff working with the audience (bar, door, merch).

Backline

Shared onstage gear such as amps and drums provided by the venue or headliner.

House left / right

Directions from the audience’s perspective, useful when finding friends or exits.

Printable Checklist

• ✔ Check set times and ID requirements
• ✔ Bring earplugs and a small bag
• ✔ Plan access needs with the venue
• ✔ Keep conversations low during quiet songs
• ✔ Record short clips only; flash off
• ✔ Offer help if someone is in difficulty
• ✔ Buy merch or music if you can
• ✔ Leave a concise, courteous review