
{"id":1754,"date":"2026-02-19T06:00:32","date_gmt":"2026-02-19T12:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/?p=1754"},"modified":"2026-02-19T07:55:34","modified_gmt":"2026-02-19T13:55:34","slug":"1754","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/2026\/02\/19\/1754\/","title":{"rendered":"Changing High Schools"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>Last week I touched on changes that come about in life and briefly explained a change I lived through as I entered high school when, as a family, we moved to a different location in the same area and school district.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>Several years after that change my father took a job that landed us nearly 900 miles away from that familiar hometown area.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>What a change that move produced! <\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><b><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">The former hometown village in Ohio <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">(population less than 500) <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">was located in the foothills of the <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">Appalachian Mountain<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">s and the new town in Georgia <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">(population almost 5,000)<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"> was as flat as <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">the top of the table that my laptop is sitting on. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">In Ohio I drove<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"> on roads with winding steep inclines and <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">then coasted<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"> on the downhill sections with a mix of farmland and hardwood forests on each side of those roads. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">In Georgia my drive was a <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">steady, almost boring <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">outing<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"> on straight highways flanked <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">by <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">tree farms filled with tall <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">evergreen<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"> pine<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">s<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>I went from attending a multi-storied school building with Art Deco features to a mid-century one story sprawling campus with several buildings linked with covered breezeways between the buildings.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>Culture shock set in early. <\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>If you were caught smoking anywhere on the Ohio school property you were suspended. Repeat offenders were expelled. The Georgia school however actually had designated areas where students were permitted to smoke cigarettes! I learned quickly that this was due to the tobacco agriculture that was so prevalent in that area. Many of those students had worked in those tobacco fields in the late summer heat and the money made from that crop supported quite a few of their families for the entire coming year.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>School dress codes were strict in the Ohio school with hair length (for guys) and skirt length for girls accepted only within certain parameters. The Georgia school allowed almost anything and many students were seen wearing shorts and flip flops in nice weather. Guys had hair long enough to tie back in a ponytail and a few guys even had mustaches. I wasn\u2019t sure whether to celebrate this newfound fashion freedom or stick with the conservative tried and true that had dominated my earlier teen years.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>With the move to Georgia in high school, I had left everything and everyone that I had known since birth. The majority of my extended family lived within 50 miles of each other but living in Georgia meant I was hundreds of miles away from all of them as well as the friends that I had grown up with. I did make new friends and eventually thrived in my new school but the first year after moving was full of emotional upheaval and grief as I resisted the changes that life was bringing about. I did not adapt to change very well or very quickly at that time in my life.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>Most of the changes in my life that came after the Georgia move were handled much better due to learning from my mistakes. Spending more time grieving what I had left behind instead of appreciating my new experiences meant I had less time to enjoy those new activities and friends. I tried not to make that same mistake as I moved through other changes in the coming years. <\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>Did you experience any significant change during your teen years that you resisted?<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>Did your resistance make that change harder or produce more emotional upheaval like mine did?<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>Please share how you handled important life changes as you navigated your teen years and how that may have shaped how you handled change as you lived through your adult years.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>I appreciate those of you who faithfully read these blog posts and especially those who share in the comment section. Another thank you goes out to those who visit my art site to browse through my collections and purchase art work or products with my images printed on them. <\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><a name=\"oam-output-code\"><\/a> <span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b>A larger version of today\u2019s featured image along with a description can be found <a style=\"color: #3b82f6\" href=\"https:\/\/kathy-mcclellan.pixels.com\/featured\/jefferson-lake-creek-kathy-k-mcclellan.html\">here<\/a>. <\/b><\/span><\/span><code class=\"western\"><b><\/b><\/code><b> <\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p class=\"text-justify\">Last week I touched on changes that come about in life and briefly explained a change I lived through as I entered [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1755,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[1913,102,1923,1827,1918,1917,1916,1919,298,1920,1915,1914,1912,1921,1924,1922],"class_list":["post-1754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general","tag-campus","tag-change","tag-dress-codes","tag-emotional","tag-flat","tag-flatland","tag-foothills","tag-hardwoods","tag-high-school","tag-pine-trees","tag-smoking","tag-strict","tag-teen","tag-tree-farms","tag-upheaval","tag-winding-road"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1754","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1754"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1754\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1757,"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1754\/revisions\/1757"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1755"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ourartsmagazine.com\/kathykmcclellan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}